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Often galore(postnominal) times in spite of appearance a church building service family such as Grace with over cardinal five hundred partners in that location argon bound to be divergence. any environment whether large or sm only we are all people, with psychealities that more or slight time come together in a manner that does non al agencys show the church family in the best of light. I assure people aroma at livers as we are designed to be different and we are in a way.We as believers are called to be different, yet we are people. This transformation comes not from our doing but through the transforming force of the Holy Spirit. This paper will stunnedline a perspective at which such an instance was brought to light. The manner in which the situation was handled by the uncouth round, and finally, the outcome from the situation as well as the change that took egress callable to the situation. In order to understand the situation we must chat closely the abid eground behind the situation. A few years approve Grace Covenant Church had a curate by the pass water of Karri. diplomatic minister Karri and my begin got a retentive quite well. As far seat as I could remember Pastor Karri and my mother hit it onward same sisters. Pastor Karri daughter would come over to my mothers house unannounced and tick for the day Just to sit and talk. Quite often Pastor Carries daughter would find herself at my mothers house to take a load off in between classes. Pastor Carries daughter Jollied was going to college located in Statistical located about five minutes away from the campus. Jollied would nonplus hours at a time after she was d nonpareil with school. I erect this to be quite out of the ordinary.Sometime my wife Jessica and I would go up in that respect to see my mom Alba and stay for some time. We would arrive there to find Jollied already there she would end up staying as recollective as I did. I remember unity time she stayed ther e until the sun went down. I often asked myself why would she stay here this long? It would seem that Jollied did not want to go home. My mother kept her forestall never to bring up situations that were talked about, and I know it was the hardest thing for my mother to do because she loves to talk. My mother is a talker. She can keep a person on the phone until you fall asleep and she will not up to now know you fell asleep.One day my mother did break the bond of stamp down and confided in me on a particular situation. My mother began to unfold the situation that struck her in the heart and she did not know how to handle it. I told her that I would never speak of it, so I will venerate my promise to her. Needless to separate the situation came out inside the rustic ply and LEAD team in the church. It was brought to our attention due to the coun filter staffs need for us to come together in prayer. The conflict that arose was a preference in the way things should be handled inwardly her family by a pastor indoors the Grace Covenant family.A situation had broken out with Pastors Carries daughter. The denominational hierarchy as well as the clownish staff wanted the situation to be handled in a manner that would not bring to light a situation that could be olfactory modalityed upon by the church partners and the denomination as a pastor that did not know how to watch control of their family. Here is where I have the problem with the situation and the use of it within the denomination. People fall short all the mime, that is what missing the dough is.When people in the church family miss the mark those people are not shunned or set aside as outcasts? Those people study to confess the sin that brought them down, repent of their sin, are forgiven because God is a compassionate God and they are led on a Journey which leads them back to the fold of Gods arms. My question is very simple, given this circumstance. If the daughter of a pastor was the cau sing the situation would it not be in the best pertain of the church to bring all parties in the situation in and try to come too place where leaning can happen in the pastors family as well as the church family?The boorish staff was cosmos told by the denominational board to handle the situation one way, and the pastoral staff its self wanted to handle the situation anther way. Here is where the conflict resided for about six months within the church. Pastor Peripheral and the church staff wanted the healing process to be held within the family before it became worse. The church had come together the way a family should in times of trouble. at that place was conflict between the denomination and the pastoral staff, coupled gather by the conflict between the pastor Carries feelings and her daughter.This tension and conflict brought much class into the church for some months. While the pressure continued to escalate within pastor Carries family, as well as the church for the si tuation, there were grumblings of tension being felt with other staff and volunteers. As I look back at the situation I saw things happening that should not have been happening. John 171 1 states Jesus prayed that all believers would be one. Jesus did not want conflict to arise within His people. I could not understand why the research was pushing so hard to have resolve in this issue, in the manner they choose.The back and forth went on for a few and finally Pastor Karri beat in her resignation. I firmly believe this was not the right way to handle what had gone yet, this is what took place. I think what really bothered me about the whole situation looking at it in hindsight is all the muteness that took place. I guess I would have understood if the conflict was interpersonal, that is one thing. This conflict seemed to rest along the sides of organizational views. Could I have less than all the information I believe this could be true.I also look back at the way the pastoral staf f handled the issue with Pastor Derrick and I see the staffs willingness to invite the dead body of Grace Covenant into the affliction that had taken place. On the other hand Grace Covenant pastoral staff went in front of the church one Sunday and told the body effective immediately Pastor Karri will no longer be on staff at Grace. The reason that was provided was a difference of views. I do not know about you but that was not fair to middling for me. Especially that pastor Karri was overseeing the entire womans spieling group.This did not win back easy with me nor did it settle with many partners either. As with any conflict within the body of Christ, many women left the church over the decision that took place. My mother and many others stayed due to a trust which developed over time for the pastoral staff to conduct themselves in a manner that promotes Gods glory not their own. I can see the growth throughout the pastoral staff from one incident to the next. In regards to Past or Carries incident the staff was very mingy lipped about what the reasons for her leaving the church.The pastoral Taft noticed the disruption this salmagundi of activity had upon the cohesiveness of the body at Grace. This type of discord and obscure within the body would spread like a poison within the body. The pastoral staff did not want this at all. We fast forrader months later and the situation with Pastor Derrick arises and not to have a slack cloud over the body at Grace the truth in all its ugliness was brought out into the open. There is growth and one would say conflict prevention within the body through the two examples. in person I cannot think of a way to prevent conflict.As I mentioned in my peeing statement. We are all people with different personalities. I do however believe the way to which we conduct ourselves in the midst of conflict is a direct reflection of Christ in our lives. Our example of this is our master key and Savior Jesus. When the sol break da ncers came to take Him away in the garden of Statement He did not put up a fight. Even as slam cut Off soldiers ear, Jesus told him those who live by the sword die by the sword. At the center of conflict Jesus remained in peace. He is our example of funding amongst personalities that are different from ours yet living in as one.